MBTIs and Enneagram Types That Believe They Know Everything

Have you ever encountered someone who seems to have all the answers, regardless of the topic at hand? You know, that person who confidently asserts their opinion as if it were a universal truth, leaving little room for debate or alternative viewpoints. If you can relate, you have likely encountered someone with a personality type who thinks they are always right.

This type of person is often referred to as having an "intolerance of uncertainty." In other words, they have a low tolerance for ambiguity and find comfort in feeling certain about things. The answer to why they always think they are right often points to a mix of traits, behaviors, and underlying psychological factors rather than a single definitive personality type.

Even though certain MBTI (Myers-Briggs Type Indicator) and Enneagram types might lean more toward this behavior, it is also associated with the "know-it-all" behavior, which may sometimes be a symptom of mental illness.

MBTI Personality Types with the "Always Right" Tendency

While anyone can display an "always right" mindset, some MBTI types have tendencies that can lead them to believe they have all the answers due to their cognitive functions and preferences. However, it's important to note that just because an individual falls into one of these types does not mean they will always display this behavior.

ESTJ: The Director

ESTJs, often called "The Executive or Director," are known for their strong organizational skills and desire for structure. Their dominant cognitive function, Extraverted Thinking (Te), leads them to seek logical order in the external world. This, combined with their auxiliary Introverted Sensing (Si), which relies on past experiences and facts, can make ESTJs strongly opinionated about rules and processes.

In their eyes, rules exist for a reason, and following them is essential to keep society running smoothly, keeping in mind ESTJ’s form around 9% of the U.S. population. This superior intellect mentality often leads them to believe their way is the best, making it difficult to convince others otherwise.

When challenged, people with the ESTJ personality type may act superior as if they hold the universal truth, dismissing alternative viewpoints. This behavior can be perceived as arrogant and domineering, causing conflict in interpersonal relationships.

ENTJ: The Commander

Like ESTJs, ENTJs possess Extraverted Thinking (Te) as their dominant function. They are natural leaders who value efficiency and strategic planning. Their introverted function, Introverted Intuition (Ni), allows them to see patterns and make connections that others may not notice. Because of this, they often feel confident in their decisions and ideas.

As a result, ENTJs can have difficulty admitting when they are wrong or considering alternative perspectives. Their "always right" mentality stems from believing that their logical approach is the most effective way of solving problems.

They may also feel frustrated when others don't see things their way, leading to a dismissive and argumentative attitude. When they believe they have all the answers, they steamroll over others' suggestions, creating friction in collaborative environments.

ISTJ: The Logistician

The Logisticians, or Inspectors, are also known for their practicality and attention to detail. They value tradition and structure, making them very rule-oriented individuals. Their dominant cognitive function, Introverted Sensing (Si), means they prefer relying on past experiences rather than seeking new possibilities.

This mindset can lead ISTJs to believe they know the best way of doing things because it has worked in the past. When faced with alternative ideas or methods, they may dismiss them as impractical or untested. This mentality can make them appear inflexible and stubborn, causing tension in their daily interactions.

INTJ: The Architect

INTJs lead with Introverted Intuition (Ni), followed by Extraverted Thinking (Te). This combination gives them a unique ability to see patterns and develop complex systems of thought.

While often more reserved than their extroverted counterparts, INTJs can still display "always right" tendencies. Their strategic and forward-thinking often lead them to see themselves as several steps ahead of others.

They are also logical and objective, which can result in them disregarding the emotional or personal perspectives of others. As a result, they may come across as dismissive, assuming their thinking is infallible.

They often struggle to understand why others don't see the world as they do, leading to a rigid sense of certainty in their beliefs. This can make them appear condescending, arrogant, and unwilling to consider alternative viewpoints.

The Enneagram Perspective on "Always Right" Behavior

The Enneagram is another popular personality typing system that categorizes individuals into nine types, each with a core desire and motivation that influences their behavior. Certain Enneagram types are more prone to displaying an "always right" mentality due to their core desires and fears.

Type 1: The Perfectionist

Type 1s have a strong sense of right and wrong and strive for moral perfection. They believe in striving for improvement, following rules, and holding themselves to high ethical standards.

This type also feels responsible for correcting what they perceive as wrong. Their fixation on doing things “the right way” can lead them to come off as judgmental or inflexible, especially when they think others aren’t adhering to the same standards.

They also tend to have a critical inner voice, reinforcing their belief that they know best. This can cause them to struggle with accepting feedback or considering alternative perspectives.

Type 5: The Investigator

Enneagram Type 5s are analytical and enjoy seeking knowledge and understanding. They often pride themselves on their intellect and competence, making them confident in their ideas and opinions.

However, this type can also develop an "always right" mindset due to their fear of being ignorant or incompetent. They may cling to information they believe is correct, even when presented with contradicting evidence. Additionally, they can become frustrated when others don't understand or accept their viewpoints, leading them to withdraw from social situations.

Type 8: The Challenger

Type 8s are assertive and decisive, often taking charge in situations. They value strength and self-sufficiency, making them confident in their abilities and decisions.

However, this type can also struggle with a "my way or the highway" mentality. Their fear of being controlled or manipulated can make them defensive and dismissive when others challenge their ideas or authority. They may also have difficulty admitting when they are wrong, seeing it as a sign of weakness.

Beyond Personality Types: Traits of Those Who Think They're Always Right

While personality types can provide insight into why someone may exhibit an "always right" mentality, it's essential to remember that individuals are complex and cannot be fully defined by a single label.

Some certain traits or behaviors contribute to this mindset, regardless of personality type. These include:

• Need for control: The need for control can manifest in different ways, such as wanting things done their way or having the final say. Being wrong feels like a loss of power, so people cling to their opinions to maintain authority over situations.
• Rigid thinking: Some people act like this because they struggle with cognitive flexibility. They see the world in black and white, believing that they operate from a place of actual knowledge while others are simply wrong. This lack of flexibility makes it hard for them to consider other perspectives or admit when they might be mistaken.
• Confidence masking insecurity: Interestingly, the belief of always being right can sometimes mask deeper insecurities. People who doubt their own feelings or sense of self-worth may act as if they are never wrong to compensate for their inner uncertainty.
• Perfectionism: Like Enneagram Type One, perfectionists, in general, need to do everything the "right" way. This can make them highly critical of others and unwilling to accept alternative methods or ideas.
• Narcissistic Personality Traits: Those with narcissistic tendencies often have an inflated sense of their own importance and knowledge.

How the "Always Right" Behavior Makes Others Feel

Dealing with the "know-it-alls" or people who think they are always right can be exhausting. Their behaviors can create tension in both personal and professional relationships and can impact those around them in several ways:

• Invalidated: Constantly being told their ideas or opinions are wrong can make others feel invalidated and dismissed. This can be especially damaging in close relationships, where one person's need always to be right can make the other feel unheard or unimportant.
• Resentful: Over time, people who are often corrected or disagreed with may resent the "always right" individual for not valuing their perspectives.
• Disengaged: When someone constantly asserts their correctness, it can lead others to disengage from discussions and interactions with such a person, knowing that their input will likely be disregarded. This can hinder collaboration and damage relationships.
• Emotional exhaustion: Dealing with someone who always thinks they are right can be emotionally draining. Constantly feeling like you have to defend yourself or your ideas can take a toll on one's mental and emotional well-being.

Tips for Dealing with Those Who Think They're Always Right

Whether you're interacting with someone who displays "always right" tendencies or recognizing these traits in yourself, here are some strategies to improve communication and relationships:

• Stay Calm: The first step in dealing with someone who believes they are never wrong is to remain calm. Getting defensive or upset will only escalate the situation, so keep your emotions in check.
• Use "I" statements: When disagreeing, frame your thoughts as personal opinions rather than absolute facts (e.g., "I see it differently" instead of "You're wrong").
• Set boundaries: If someone's "always right" behavior is causing significant stress, it's okay to set boundaries and limit interactions when necessary.
• Pick Your Battles: Not every disagreement needs to be argued. Instead, reserve your boundless energy for more significant matters where you feel a real impact is at stake.
• Acknowledge Their Perspective: Sometimes, validating a person’s viewpoint — even if you disagree — can diffuse tension. A simple acknowledgment that their perspective is valid can make them feel heard, making them more open to considering other ideas.

No One Is Always Right

The adage "Nobody's perfect" rings especially true when it comes to being right all the time. Remember that infallibility is a myth whether you're an ESTJ, INTJ, or any other personality type. This is to say that no one has all the answers, and everyone makes mistakes.

Keeping this in mind can help foster healthier relationships and more open-minded thinking. 

So, rather than striving to be "right" and exhibiting know-it-all behavior, focus on staying open to new perspectives, learning from your mistakes, and respecting the opinions of others. In doing so, you may find that being wrong is not bad after all.  

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