Am I Stupid? 12 Things Dumb People Do That a Smart Person Wouldn't

As humans, we often battle many insecurities and inadequacies, including feeling dumber than the average person. 

Do you usually do things, and the awkwardness you receive from friends, colleagues, or family members leaves you wondering, '"Am I stupid? Am I dumb?"

We all have moments when we do dumb things. But when you constantly feel like every move you make or anything you say comes out as stupid, it's fair to wonder whether you're dumb.

While we often use the word "stupid" when we feel that people are not at par with our level of intelligence or with whom we disagree, there is genuine human stupidity.

As Forrest Gump famously said, "Stupid is as stupid does." This quote emphasizes that stupidity is often about actions and behaviors rather than a lack of intelligence.

This article isn't written to bash you or make you feel even more stupid. 

Instead, we will embark on a journey of self-discovery and learn new ways our words and actions can make us feel smart—based on what smart people do that dumb people don't.

But first, let's get some clear definitions of a smart person and a stupid person. 

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Who is an Intelligent Person, and Are They Smart?

Intelligence primarily focuses on learning, reasoning, understanding, and problem-solving abilities and can be measured with standardized tests like an IQ test. Like Albert Einstein and Elon Musk, people with a higher intelligence quotient tend to have a higher mental sharpness in grasping complex concepts, adaptability, and finding practical solutions to complex problems.

Whether high intelligence translates into a smart person is entirely another matter. 

A smart individual can acquire vast amounts of knowledge and apply it at the right time. They can apply the acquired knowledge while simultaneously navigating social dynamics and making efficient decisions to overcome everyday constraints.

But even the most intelligent people in the world can do dumb things!

Who is a Stupid Person?

First, let's clarify that we are not demeaning your thinking abilities when we are talking about being dumb. We are all about showing you how to make rational decisions that make you look good!

A stupid person is not necessarily someone who lacks intelligence (and a successful smart person doesn't necessarily have a super high IQ, either). 

Instead, a stupid person often makes decisions that defy common sense and logic. Unfortunately, as we'll observe, stupid people seem to carry destructive power that wrecks their lives and other people's lives, often for no gain.

We can't say why stupid people do what they do; however, a Professor of Economics at UC Berkeley, Carlo M. Cipolla, gives us a glimpse into this particular facet of human behavior. He wrote a short essay titled The Basic Laws of Human Stupidity, which has since become the holy grail of the subject and is now available as a book. He believes that stupidity is one of the most potent forces hindering human welfare and happiness growth.

Carlo explains that we underestimate the number of stupid individuals and their effect on the world. He goes on to say that their unreasonable behavior results from nature and is independent of any other characteristics of the particular individual.

This may mean that even the person society considers smart could still be stupid to some extent—consider checking the internet, which is flooded with articles titled "Why do smart people do dumb things?"

Put simply, there will always be stupid individuals across the divide.

What Do Stupid People Do That a Smart Person Wouldn't?

Stupid people often act impulsively, avoid accountability, and fail to learn from their mistakes. They also tend to lack curiosity for learning, show low empathy, and exhibit narrow-mindedness. These behaviors stand in contrast to the rational and thoughtful actions of smart individuals.

Now that we've defined what intelligent and stupid people are, let's explore in more detail some specific actions and behaviors that dumb people do that smart people wouldn't.

1. "Act" Smart

Have you ever heard of mega ignorance? The Dunning-Kruger Effect explains that stupid people are often unaware of their deficiencies and tend to oversell their abilities. These individuals make significant efforts to show off and prove themselves, often talking more than acting.

In contrast, smart people understand their limitations and believe that others can likely do what they do, often better. They don't feel the need to constantly prove their intelligence or skills.

2. Avoid Accountability

Imagine a person who is generally hasty to make decisions and does not take accountability for their actions. It can be draining for the people around them.

Reasonable people acknowledge that the buck stops with them. They know accountability builds trust, enhances challenging decision-making skills, and eliminates the egotistical approach to life that can lead to numerous failures.

3. Fail to Learn From Their Mistakes

Part of what makes stupid people seem so irrational is their inability to learn from their mistakes—the proverbial "doing things the same way and expecting different results." When situations don't go their way, they call them failures and miss the opportunity to learn and grow. An intelligent person shows reasonable persistence but knows when to fold up or ask for help.

4. Lack Any Curiosity for Learning and Improvement

Everybody, including dumb people, knows that a passion for continuous learning and developing skills is key to success. Stupid people assume the skills and knowledge they currently have are sufficient, while intelligent people are always looking to gain more insights to better influence their world.

5. Show a Lack of Empathy 

Walking a mile in another person's shoes may not come easily for anyone, but stupid people tend to be worse at it. Complaining and playing the victim constantly makes it impossible to reason with them. Watch out for signs like poor listening skills, over-criticizing others, and impatience. These may cause conflict in the workplace and personal relationships.

6. Display Low Emotional Intelligence

Can people almost bet that you'll rant and throw a fit when things get tough at the office or home? Unfortunately, that's a classic sign of stupidity. Remember, our definition of stupid people includes those who cause harm to others while gaining nothing. They may even suffer losses themselves.

Emotional outbursts do not solve problems, cause other people anxiety and stress, and eventually make you look foolish. Reasonable people possess a heightened sense of emotional control over themselves and their interactions with others.

7. Exhibit Narrow-Mindedness

Narrow-mindedness occurs when a person is unwilling to accommodate new ideas or opinions or, at the very least, listen to different perspectives. Part of what makes stupidity dangerous is that it causes problems not only for the silly person but also for others. Such close-minded people are not fun and will eventually experience stunted personal and professional growth.

8. Lack Self-Awareness

We can tie most stupid and self-damaging behaviors to a lack of self-awareness. A deep understanding of your strengths, weaknesses, thoughts, and emotions allows you to leverage your strengths and improve on your weak areas for fulfilling personal relationships and professional growth. Regular self-reflection is a smart habit. 

9. Ignore Feedback

A common trait among stupid people is their inability to accept or learn from feedback. They often perceive constructive criticism as a personal attack, whereas intelligent people understand the benefit of feedback in personal and professional growth. Being open to feedback allows for continuous improvement and helps in making more informed decisions.

10. Engage in Self-Destructive Behavior

Stupid people often engage in behavior that is detrimental to their well-being, such as substance abuse, reckless driving, or unhealthy eating habits. These actions not only harm themselves but also have a ripple effect on their friends and family.

Smart people recognize the importance of maintaining a healthy lifestyle, keeping their brains young, and making choices that contribute positively to their well-being and emotional environment. 

11. Neglect Planning for the Future

One significant difference between intelligent and dumb people is their approach to planning. Stupid people tend to live in the moment without considering the long-term consequences of their actions. 

In contrast, smart individuals set goals, make plans, and take proactive steps to secure their future. They understand that foresight and preparation are crucial for achieving success and stability.

12. Mismanage Finances

Financial mismanagement is another hallmark of stupidity. Stupid people often make impulsive purchases, fail to save, and accumulate debt without understanding the long-term implications. Smart people, on the other hand, budget wisely, save for emergencies, and invest in their future. They are aware of the importance of financial literacy and make informed decisions to ensure financial security.

Human Stupidity Can Be Shed Off: You Don't Have to Live As a Dumb Person

Your choices and actions may make you seem like a dumb person, but you don't have to feel or live this way. By avoiding the pitfalls of close-mindedness, unaccountability, a lack of self-awareness, and everything we've discussed above, you'll be on your way to becoming a better version of yourself.

Stupidity, often perceived as a lack of intelligence, can manifest in various forms of unreasonable behavior that hinder personal growth and negatively impact society. By identifying and avoiding these behaviors, anyone can work towards becoming smarter and more self-aware.

Remember, intelligence and wisdom are not fixed traits but qualities that can be developed and refined over time. If you're curious about your intelligence, taking a "dumb test" (aka, an IQ test) can provide insights into your cognitive abilities. 

However, remember that being smart or stupid isn't just about your IQ score; it's also about your behavior and decision-making. Additionally, personality tests can help you understand why you do the things you do, revealing your strengths and areas for improvement.

Embrace the journey of continuous learning, self-improvement, and rational decision-making to shed any semblance of stupidity and unlock your full potential.

Taking quizzes and tests, seeking feedback, and being open to new ideas are just a few ways to measure and enhance your intelligence. By doing so, you'll not only improve your life but also contribute positively to the world around you. 

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